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Welcome to the Rhetonic Blog

Hello and thank you for visiting the Rhetonic blog. Now, pull up a chair and let’s have a chat…

Like any subjects, my passions of Psychology, Marketing, Leadership and Enterprise can be as fascinating or as dull as we make them. Well, I don;t know about you, but I don’t like too many dull things, so I want to use this opportunity to make my topics as stimulating, thought-provoking and relevant as I can. But I’m going to need your help.

Firstly, please do browse through the entries and come back to look again from time-to-time. I am not one who is often short of things to say, so this blog will be updated on a regular basis. Better still, why not subscribe to it so you will always know when something new has come out.

Secondly, keep your mind open to what we can learn here. Many of the insights and comments which follow, relate not just to our leaders and our customers, but also to ourselves as individuals and consumers. So, much of it will apply to all of us at many levels – if we let it.

Finally, when you are reading through the posts, if you find something that makes you curious, think about things differently, surprises you or even annoys you – will you tell me? That way the ‘lecture’ becomes a conversation, and we will all go away better informed.

Do we have a deal?  I hope so…

Speaker profile for GatorCon 2018

Speaker profile for GatorCon 2018

Later this month I am speaking at the fantastic GatorCon event which takes place in Hampshire. It is a two day event which, in their words, brings together “the smartest email & marketing professionals in the world”. Wow. I can’t wait!

I am speaking twice at the event. Firstly I shall be running a Masterclass on Colour Psychology – covering how colour is seen in the brain and what that means for brands and marketing messages.

Then, on the second day, I am delivering a keynote session to the conference about Gender Marketing – what do we need to know in order to engage with our WHOLE audience more effectively?

As part of the build up to the event, the organisers interviewed me for their blog. Have a look here at how that went!

This message would not be complete without a quick ‘Thank You’ to Simon Moss. Simon is the Marketing Director at Communigator – the organisation who run GatorCon. Simon heard me speak at a B2B event in Cambridge back in the Spring, and as a result of that he invited me to speak – twice – at their event.

Thanks Simon…I hope you won’t regret it!


Man Looking – it is officially a thing!

Man Looking – it is officially a thing!

Have you come across the term ‘man looking’? We use it a lot in our house. “Oh Daddy, you’ve been doing man looking haven’t you?”. Poor Daddy!

Man looking is defined by the Urban Dictionary as ‘the act of looking for an item and failing to locate it when it is in plain sight’. Do you know anyone who does that? Are they male?

The thing is, we now know that there are differences between the way men and women see the world. Clear, distinct differences which are part of our genetic make up. Read more

Brands as seen through Other People’s Eyes

Brands as seen through Other People’s Eyes

How good is your memory?

Don’t worry, I am not going to ask you what you had for breakfast yesterday, or where you were last Tuesday evening. I just wonder how good you are at recalling things which you see on a regular basis.

Like the Apple logo. Could you draw that if I asked you to?

Or the Burger King logo – how well could you recall that one?

A study carried out in America, did just that. It asked people to draw the logos of some of the most recognised brands on Microsoft Paint. And the findings make for interesting reading…or viewing. Read more

Whatever is Golden, it usually isn’t Silence

Whatever is Golden, it usually isn’t Silence
Can you hear me?

You are a good driver, right? I’m sure you are diligent and attentive and you always have your mind on the road and its other users. Always. And yet, I could probably reduce the level of attention you are giving the road to a fraction of what it usually is by doing just one simple thing. Any ideas what it is?

I could simply play your favourite song. Even better if it is your favourite song from your late teens. Because what will happen is your brain will be flooded with memories of ‘that person’ who made your heart race, you will be recalling your first dance with them or the snog at the end of that film you went to see. You will be transported back to a different time, place and maybe circle of friends. Time will stand still…all whilst you are still doing 68mph (well done you!) on the motorway.

Music can do that to us. It transports us and stimulates memories and emotions without us even trying. And so can many of the sounds we are surrounded by and bombarded with on a continuous basis. Read more

The Sweet Smell of Success

The Sweet Smell of Success
Distinctive smell

What is your favourite smell? Fresh bread? Fresh cut grass? Bacon? Coffee? Your pet? Roses? A luxurious moisturizer? An aftershave which takes you back to a special person? There are so many to choose from…

Smells hold a special power within our brain. Their impact can be highly influential, yet sadly often overlooked.

When our senses receive information, they each have to send messages to the thalamus within the brain, before going on to the higher areas of perceptual processing. All that is, except the sense of smell. Smell has a fast-track route which means it not only registers faster, but it registers within an area which is connected to our emotions. Therefore, smells directly stimulate our emotions. Read more